We all have indiscretions, but where some of us will own up to ours, others simply ignore theirs, will still see themselves as perfect, and they will continue to point the finger.
Instead of pointing the finger, or apportioning blame, we need to just accept we have indiscretions and that we’re not in fact perfect. Pointing the finger in someone else’s direction because they’re simply being honest about our behaviour, isn’t the way to do it.
In the longer term of course, we will always get caught out. It’s right to own our indiscretions. They’re ours after all.