I believe to a certain extent, everyone lives in their own version of their realities, no matter how much of that reality they perceive, even if it is different to that of someone else. We detect information in our realities.
Ever since I was a small child I’ve always thought about things. I learned to function well living in my own little world. I believe our self-worth relies on our realities being positive. No matter how much negativity I was subjected to, I always put a positive slant on things. I made sure my self-worth was not affected.
Generally, we interpret and respond to interpretation in our realties, even if our reality means others may interpret and experience a different reality to us, based on the very same information.
But it is important that whatever our realities, we don’t judge ourselves, or others. It is important not to compare, or measure our life in relation to another person’s life.
We must never use comparisons to measure our self-worth. Appearances are not always as they seem, appearances can’t always tell the truth. What we see or understand as an appearance has meaning attached to it that we may not always understand.
We must come to understand the meaning behind appearances, rather than simply choose to go in and judge what we see as an outward appearance, or reality.