Everyone lives in their own version of their realities, no matter how much of that reality they perceive, even if it is different to that of someone else. We detect information in our realities.
Our self-worth relies on our realities being positive. No matter how much negativity we are subjected to, it’s important we put a positive slant on things so that we make sure our self-worth is not affected.
Generally, we interpret and respond to interpretation in our realties, even if our reality means others may interpret and experience a different reality to us, based on the very same information.
It is important that whatever our realities, we don’t judge ourselves, or others. It is also important not to compare, or measure our life in relation to another person’s life. We must never use comparisons to measure our self-worth.
Appearances are not always as they seem, appearances don’t always tell the truth. What we see or understand as an appearance, has meaning attached to it that we may not always be aware of.
We must come to understand the meaning behind appearances, rather than simply choose to go in and judge what we see as an outward appearance, or reality.