Signs of personal growth

When anyone is at one with themselves, they feel whole, happy and are in sync with themselves. They don’t take offence, are not easily wounded, or triggered by other people’s words or actions.

For those who take offence, there are many opportunities for you to self-heal, but it is important you acknowledge your feelings and underlying pain. It is also important you recognise any deep wound being brought to the surface, process those emotions and address any past issues.

Ask yourself what you’re being taught and try to see how someone’s actions or words can be resolved in an amicable, non-judgmental way. When people take responsibility and control for their own lives, they will see the hidden gifts being offered, the learning, the lessons and the personal growth.

The very platform that allows them to grow, heal and renew is your same platform. Seeing life’s lessons and the inner gift or soul learning, is what really heals us.

26 Jun, 2010

4 thoughts on “Signs of personal growth

  1. Yes but, how do you see the hidden gifts being offered, the learning, the lessons and the personal growth…?

    1. Bill, by acknowledging feelings and underlying pain, processing those emotions and working through those feelings and underlying pain, allows us to recognise self growth.

      We sometimes also allow other people to make decisions for us without taking back some form of control. The more you stay in control, the more you manage your life.

      There are always reasons behind conflicts and disputes, but I believe there is always a bigger picture as to why we have to work through those disputes. Just accepting that things happen, often makes it easier for us to accept that is has so that we can move on rather than internalise issues. When we internalise issues, we stagnate very quickly and end up blaming others instead of sorting ourselves out. Often the problems lie within.

  2. What is hard sometimes is that some people never learn and they keep putting the blame on others. It’s like they are owed something for the problems they’ve had in their life. I agree with you. If you let the past go and learn from it you’ll have more peace within and not find conflict with others.

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