When people are at one with themselves, they feel whole, happy and are in sync with their lives. They don’t take offence, are not easily wounded or triggered by other people’s words or actions. They tend not to take things personally and will quite often see the bigger picture.
For those who do take offence, with each conflict, wounding or dispute there are many opportunities for self-healing, but it’s important to acknowledge our feelings and underlying pain. It’s also important for us to recognise any deep wound being brought to the surface, process those emotions so that we can work through them, or address any past issues with a counsellor.
We all have lessons, we all have a journey to take. Ask yourself what you’re being taught by the dispute and work on seeing how that dispute can be resolved in an amicable, non-judgmental way.
When people take responsibility and control for their own lives, including their issues, they will see the hidden gifts being offered, the learning, the lessons and the personal growth. The very platform that allows them to grow, heal and renew.
I absolutely believe that seeing life’s lessons and the inner gift or soul learning is what really heals us.