It’s always bad to invest our energy and get hooked on the wrong things that make us lose sight and control. The good part is that to regain control over our personal lives isn’t as hard as we think.
Losing control means we’re powerless to regain control and that usually happens when we leave issues for too long. We tend to leave things too long because we tell ourselves the problem will correct itself, or we stand on ceremony because we’re too stubborn to admit where were wrong, we won’t back down and wait for someone else to do the running.
The irony is that when we continue to follow the same unconscious patterns without giving what we do a seconds thought, we will never have control. The longer we wait, the harder things will become.
The sooner we deal with our problems, the quicker those problems will get resolved. Perhaps, we should act instead of ignoring our problems. For every problem there is a solution. It’s up to us to try to work out the solution
With each problem we face, we will come to learn a new skill and where we lost the emotional control, we will begin to regain it back.