Many of us will go on to repeat history instead of creating our own, because we see our parents’ failing as ours. We think there will be a correlation between our parents’ life and our own and that if our parents fail, we will fail.
I believe that isn’t the case or that it has to happen. We get to choose to change the way we perceive our own lives and how we get to live the life we have, or want. We can choose not to emulate the behaviour of our parents so that history doesn’t end up repeating itself.