Without us having a sense of self, everything we try to do may not work out. Start understanding who you are and stop waiting for just the right time.
Take time to look at yourself and your circumstances and think about what you want, not what someone else wants for you. What are your wants and needs?
Stop waiting for life to change, life won’t change until you change. When you continually put too much emphasis on the wrong things and on the wrong people, you may end up becoming the victim, and playing the victim isn’t healthy or constructive.
Without a sense of self, goals are harder to define, and needs will be harder to understand. Where we’re not to blame, and we’re old enough to make our own decisions, life becomes our responsibility.
Where others or situations may be the reason for our initial issues, issues have solutions with no sell by date, it’s up to us to solve them. Stop thinking and take the initiative, or life will take the initiative for you.