We may either use our experiences to change things for the better, or we may use them to hone-in on a life less than, a life where we continue to harbour resentment and blame. Based on ‘universal understanding’ we have freewill to change.
Each of us may reach bigger heights and bring success into our lives. Successful people don’t become successful overnight. They become successful because they have focused on their lessons, determined to change their lives.
They have known hardships, they understand their experiences, and want a different life for themselves. They work it out. Where there is blame, they see the blame clearly and will deviate so blame isn’t their primary focus.
Listening to Corey Wayne of UnderstandingRelationships.com’s Podcast, he talks about ‘success and haters’ and why people hate others who are successful. He is clear that each of us may have success, but we need to deal with our issues. That we can all work on having success.
He talks about resentment, which is very much part of where we are with our own experiences and has nothing to do with how we feel about other people’s success. Instead, we may project what we feel inwards, outwards at those who have met with success.
Away from Corey’s teaching though, the universe is clear that unless we are happy for others to have their own success, we may never meet with success ourselves.