Even though we will spend a large proportion of our lives being unconsciously conditioned, I still believe we should apply common sense on how we conduct ourselves. Unconscious conditioning shouldn’t be an excuse for not thinking about and applying common sense to all our relationships.
We tend to use our past as a get out clause for how we conduct ourselves in our present lives. How others behave, doesn’t mean we should go on to treat others in the same way through unconscious conditioning. We should always apply common sense to our relationships. Think about our issues, deal with those and continue to build on our relationships.
It’s unfair and inappropriate for others when we base our current relationships on past unconscious experiences. Perhaps this is something we should think about changing, because not to means we will never get the best out of our relationships.
It’s important in any relationship to consciously think about our behaviour, consciously of course. Conscious conditioning is the backbone to all successful relationships.