Even though we will spend a large proportion of our lives being unconsciously conditioned, we should apply common sense on how we conduct ourselves. Unconscious conditioning shouldn’t be an excuse for not thinking about and applying common sense to all our relationships.
We use our past as a get out clause for how we conduct ourselves presently. How others behave, doesn’t give us the right to treat others in the same way, through unconscious conditioning. Instead we must think about our issues, deal with those and continue to build on our relationships.
It’s unfair for others when we base our current relationships on past unconscious experiences. Perhaps this is something we should think about changing, because not to, means we can never get the best out of our relationships.
It is important we all consciously think about our behaviour, how we think about and conduct ourselves in the present moment, is the backbone to all successful relationships.