I believe our life is already predetermined before we come into this life, but to a certain extent once we’re here, we are the authors of our destiny.
Our life script (predispositions to our experiences) is interactive with possibilities and choices leading on to different pathways and we do have a certain responsibility over those. That is why we cannot solely blame others for our circumstances or experiences. We must learn to take responsibility for the lessons we choose to learn.
I don’t believe we have full control for everything, but it’s wrong to think we have no control at all. We can choose to change certain things. We can operate on a higher vibration or a lower one. Whichever one we choose, determines how we will experience our life and how that will determine our destiny. I’m not sure how many of us come to think about our lives in that way.
Perhaps we should stop to think about that, because if we don’t we will always continue to blame others for the way our lives turn out. Even though our lives may start out a certain way, some of the choices we go on to make, aren’t always down to other people.
Our life and our choices in the end become our responsibility, regardless of what has past. We must be responsible for those.