If something is happening, good or bad, it’s important we unconsciously acknowledge it, even if we then consciously choose to ignore it. Ignoring it can be detrimental to our health.
When we’re unconsciously acknowledging something that the universe is aware of, we’re not completely in denial and that helps with the healing process. An issue or problem will exist and will continue to exist until we deal with it.
If the issues we’re carrying are bound up in abuse, eventually carrying those will make us ill. When we run from the truth, we run from ourselves, but life still exists and we will cope less around the issues we choose not to deal with, or resolve.
Our need to surrender, deal with and let go of our issues for the sake of our health and sanity should be far greater than our need to deny the issues, problems or truth, or in other cases waiting for an apology we didn’t get. Even without an apology our sanity and health has to be more important.
It doesn’t take away the wrongdoing. The universe will always be aware of the facts and will balance the deed accordingly.