If something is happening, good or bad, it’s important we acknowledge it unconsciously then address it. We know our experiences, what we’ve been through. Ignoring it can be detrimental to our health.
When we unconsciously acknowledge our experiences we’re not completely in denial of the truth and that helps with the healing process. But an issue will continue to exist, until we deal with it.
If the issues we carry are through abuse, eventually the abuse will make us ill. When we run from the truth, we run from ourselves, but life still exists outside of that and we must deal with our issues.
Our need to surrender, for the sake of our health and sanity should be far greater than our need to deny our problems, or in other cases waiting for an apology we didn’t get. Even without an apology, our sanity and health is more important.
It doesn’t take away the wrongdoing. The universe is aware of the facts and will balance the deed accordingly.