There are many reasons why we remain stuck, but until we choose to change, we will always remain stuck. For us to move forward, we must deal with our issues, therefore changing our circumstances.
It’s easier to become unstuck, when it’s someone else holding us back. As long as we’re aware of why, we can work on changing our circumstances. On the other hand, if remaining stuck is down to something you’ve done or said that you haven’t owned up to, then that’s for you to deal with.
It is up to the individual to take responsibility. Emotionally we will always remain stuck when we fail to take responsibility. When we take responsibility we grow, we change and move on. As we continue to hold other people accountable, we can never move on and will always remain stuck.
As much as may know others are to blame, there comes a time when it’s time for us to deal with our issues: it all lies in how we choose to react. Whenever we apportion blame, we remain the victim and will always stay stuck.