There are many reasons why we remain stuck, but until we decide to turn things around, we’ll always remain stuck. For us to move forward, we must move away from our reason for being stuck, through changing our circumstances.
It’s often easier to become unstuck, when it’s someone else holding us back and it’s not us, so long as we’re aware of why and then we can work on changing those circumstances. On the other hand, if remaining stuck is down to something we’ve done or said, but haven’t owned up to our responsibilities, then that’s for us to deal with.
It’s up to the individual to take responsibility for changing an outcome. Emotionally we will always remain stuck when we fail to take responsibility, regardless of who is to blame. When we release ourselves, we allow ourselves to grow, change and move on. As we continue to hold other people accountable, we can never consciously move on and will always remain stuck.
As much as we know others are to blame, there comes a time when it’s time to deal with and move on, but it all lies in how we choose to react. As we continue to apportion blame, we remain the victim and that keeps us stuck.