Self-acceptance allows us to let go of the things we cannot change. It allows us to identify our strengths and celebrate our accomplishments.
It also allows us to think positively and plan ahead. Self-acceptance allows us to take control of our lives, allows us to move on from the past and gives us confidence. Self-acceptance also empowers us to choose the life we want, so that we may find peace.
But to have self-acceptance we must deal with and let go of the past, because without letting go of the past, we can’t live and accept new things. Self-acceptance allows us to focus and stay in the present moment. It also helps us to recognise our talents and capabilities.
However we get to do it, it is important we continue to be accepting of ourselves. We must look at our uniqueness, embrace and be proud of who we are.
My mother used to tell me to quit focusing on the past cause it would get me no where. It will cause bad feelings that continue to hurt you if there are bad things from the past... and I would remember the bad things. Focusing on the future and our abilities is better for us. It gives us something to look forward to. It's our dreams for our future that by accepting ourselves and our abilities it give us hope for the future. Good advice Ilana. Lisa
Of course.
I think I have finally accepted the fact that I have CP, but it's the things that it causes me to do (drop stuff, break stuff, not be able to pick something up without dropping it again...) that I still have a problem with.
How do I come to terms with that stuff?
Bill by accepting CP you have to accept all that comes with having it. I do believe you are comfortable with the fact that you have it, I think others you share your life with still have a problem with you having it. A lot of your negativity comes from them.
Once everyone begins to support you, you will accept more of what you cannot change such as dropping stuff, breaking stuff etc.
I'm here for you.
Its really the getting angry about that stuff that I still have issues with.
Bill I do understand. You will probably still have issues with what you deal with, but the support element will help you cope better. Support is the backbone to anyone dealing with disability however large or small.
I have just this year learned to let go of the past namely 2 giant losses in my life. Started to look forward to the future. I have realized what is in the past is done. There is no going back. Sure life is not perfect but who's life is. Try and enjoy some part of your day that is what life is all about.
Randy you are right, the past is the past.. I am so pleased that you have let go of your losses and are now looking to the future. I'm here for you. Thanks for your support.
I still have a problem of hanging on to some old feelings and haven't yet come to terms with my illnesses. I just go about life as if all is well and I push myself and continue to go. I know one day I will crash, but I'm learning to live with what I have been dealt with little by little.
Lisa I used to do the same but just began to let go little by little. Holding on to your problems will hurt you more and will cause DIS-EASE in your life. Time to let go.
I know. Its easier said than done with me sometimes
I understand Lisa. Not something that's easy to do... I'm here to support you.
Wow thank you ilana!! Given the past year's situations, I really needed to read this! You're an angel!! ?
Awww thanks Bonnie. I hope those situations are over and that you've turned a corner.