Something inspirational:

“When someone tells you, “You’ve changed,” it might simply be because you’ve stopped living your life their way.”

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Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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6 comments on “When you change”

    1. Thanks Lisa. They may also not like what they see, particularly if we happen to have lived our lives the way they want us to.

    1. Thank you. People always feel more comfortable being in control. They're not comfortable with having to adapt.

      People by nature aren't great with change, they like life to run smoothly the way they want.

  1. Brad and Lisa are absolutely right.

    When people realize you're not going to live life their way or be subjected to their way of life, they begin to realize it's no longer business as usual.

    1. Thanks Tim. Brand and Lisa are right as are you.

      When you take it's no longer business as usual out of the equation, life with that person becomes a little uncertain and that's hard.

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