Something inspirational:

"How you think when you lose determines how long it will be until you win."

GILBERT KEITH CHESTERTON

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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4 comments on “Losing thoughts”

  1. If you keep a negative attitude you will not win. I think being positive makes things go the way you want most of the time.

    Being negative will only deepen bad feelings which will get you no where. Being positive is healthy and helps in so many ways, even can make illness better than it is, possibly curing it.

  2. This is a quotation I really need to remember, it is helpful to see it in writing.

    I try to practice what this quote preaches, but I often fail.

    1. Thanks Tim. It's always difficult to be positive when we fail. As much as we know we must stay positive, a part of us gives up, particularly if we fail more times than we win. You're probably not alone on this one.

      I tend to look at the bigger picture on what I'm dealing with, that always helps. If we work on the assumption that things happen for a reason and that there is always a bigger picture, we will have more reason to keep going.

      Try to look forward and beyond what you're dealing with and you will move forward. I am a firm believer that works.

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