Making decisions may seem easy but without the confidence or ground work, it’s not always easy. A lack of confidence is the biggest reason we fail to make decisions. Some decisions that are routine we make without giving much thought, but decisions that are more difficult or challenging will demand more thinking and consideration from us. Where life is uncertain, making decisions can lead to uncertainties too.

Decisions that are fraught with Difficulties

Making any decision can be fraught with difficulties. Without all the facts to hand, you may find it difficult to make a decision; you may not understand what is being asked of you. There may also be many interrelated factors to consider that you haven’t thought about or considered. Then there’s the impact of the decision you need to consider.

Also, how will making your decision change your routine or circumstances? Have you thought about an alternative, or explored other possibilities? Not everyone will accept the decisions you make, or will feel comfortable with your decision and that's okay, they don't have to be.

They may not react well, because they don’t understand your reasoning behind your decision, or they don’t agree, but your decision is for you to make, even if it is wrong for them.

Making a Decision

• Firstly, identify the decision you may want to make;
• Gather all the relevant information;
• Identify and start to evaluate the alternatives, if you have any;
• Think about the alternatives and listen to your gut;
• Carry out your decision.

When it comes to making any decisions, it is important you bring your problem-solving and decision-making skills into it. It's also important to think about your gut. If your gut is telling you something, it's usually right.