Making decisions may seem easy but without the confidence or ground work, it’s not always easy. A lack of confidence is the biggest reason we fail to make decisions. Some decisions that are routine we make without giving much thought, but decisions that are more difficult or challenging will demand more thinking and consideration from us. Where life is uncertain, making decisions can lead to uncertainties too.
Decisions that are fraught with Difficulties
Making any decision can be fraught with difficulties. Without all the facts to hand, you may find it difficult to make a decision; you may not understand what is being asked of you. There may also be many interrelated factors to consider that you haven’t thought about or considered. Then there’s the impact of the decision you need to consider.
Also, how will making your decision change your routine or circumstances? Have you thought about an alternative, or explored other possibilities? Not everyone will accept the decisions you make, or will feel comfortable with your decision and that's okay, they don't have to be.
They may not react well, because they don’t understand your reasoning behind your decision, or they don’t agree, but your decision is for you to make, even if it is wrong for them.
Making a Decision
When it comes to making any decisions, it is important you bring your problem-solving and decision-making skills into it. It's also important to think about your gut. If your gut is telling you something, it's usually right.
I was the only one making decisions for me as a child, so to me this was the norm and I found it easy. I have been fortunate this has followed me throughout most my adult life.
Your suggestions seem sensible for others who don't find making decisions, particularly important ones, so easy.
Thank you. Yes, I think they are also.
Unlike you, as a child I never had to make a decision, but having always gone with my gut, making decisions came easy to me when it was time for me to start making decisions.
I also think it depends on our attitude and personality. As you have found out, the more independent you are, the easier your decision making will be.