I know what this feels like. In society and in the home very few people look beyond a person's disability to see the real person underneath. We need to be more accepting of others and that comes when we're more accepting of ourselves.

For those who deal with any long-term condition, they need to also try to be more accepting of themselves. If they were supported and accepted by family and society as a whole, it would make their lives much easier.

It's not to say that everyone works this way, but realistically, how are those with a disability supposed to find a level of acceptance for themselves, when what they deal with isn't accepted by others?

This is so true when it comes to disability.

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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4 comments on “Acceptance”

  1. Absolutely the same with BP disorder, it's hard to accept it, but with time we learn to deal with it.

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