To heal emotional pain, we need to acknowledge it. Where that may seem obvious to some, others are not always aware of what that pain is. Outwardly, we don't always make the correlations between how we feel now and with our past experiences.

We will all have varying degrees of emotional pain or trauma in our energy field. We must learn to turn our attention to it. Unfortunately, when we fail to turn our attention to any type of emotional pain we will always end up in emotional conflict, which can be the difference between staying well and becoming ill.

It is important we are aware of our emotions and must bring those into our conscious thoughts so that we can acknowledge them. We learn from an early age not to talk about things, but unless we are encouraged to talk, a lot of what we feel will get buried.

Harbouring any unconscious experiences from our past will always come to the surface at some point in our lives. Emotions that aren’t dealt with, can turn into anger issues.

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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