I live with a non-visible disability. To the untrained eye, there may appear to be nothing wrong – physically, mentally and emotionally, but that couldn't be further from the truth. Because my disability isn’t something people can easily see – I often find myself being used as a scapegoat, being judged unfairly, opinions passed, or having my mental and emotional struggles dismissed altogether. It's isolating – and I know I'm not alone – my experiences aren't just unique to me.

What is a Non-Visible Disability?

A non-visible disability is one that isn’t immediately apparent or easily observed, challenging the common stereotypes of what disabilities should look like. The impact of living with a non-visible disability can vary from minimal to profoundly life-altering. In my case, it significantly affects my daily life and continues to be life-impacting.

While the following list is extensive, I personally navigate anxiety, mild depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, autism, sensory processing challenges, cerebral palsy, cognitive impairments including learning disabilities, and respiratory issues. Over time, I have learned to rely on my gut instinct.

Non-Visible Disabilities include:

• Mental health disorders such as anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, personality disorders, and obsessive-compulsive disorder
• Autism and Asperger’s syndrome
• Visual impairments
• Hearing loss
• Sensory processing difficulties
• Cognitive impairments, including dementia, traumatic brain injuries, and learning disabilities
• Chronic health conditions like diabetes, chronic pain or fatigue, respiratory issues, and incontinence

Conclusion

It is essential not to make assumptions about anyone – a person’s condition. Instead, listen, understand and offer support. Individuals like myself, who live with non-visible disabilities, deserve the same respect and recognition as those with visible disabilities – and just because a disability isn’t immediately seen, or understood doesn’t mean it isn't real.

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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