The more problems we have with our muscles, the less likely we are to exercise. Tight shoulder and neck muscles are very common. It’s particularly common when we overexert ourselves, or we are stressed.

The tightness can extend to the upper back, arms and neck and sometimes, with headaches which can develop from the tight muscles in the neck. Also, from sitting at a desk for long periods, working out, or from overhead activities such as swimming, or playing tennis.

The muscle concerned is the Trapezius Muscle. When this muscle is tight, it can affect the entire body, as well as the neck, shoulders and upper back. Thankfully it is rarely serious enough to require medical attention, but they can affect our overall well-being.

The guidelines below will help you to deal with these tight muscles on your own.

Checking for Tightness

Every now and again throughout the day, check where your shoulders are. Ideally, your shoulders should be in line with your collarbone; not higher or pushed forward. You can check this by simply letting your shoulders ‘fall.’ You may realise you have them in a shrugged position too often.

Shoulder Shrugs

To prevent muscles from tightening and to release tension, do shoulder shrugs. To do this pull your shoulders all the way to your ears, holding them there for a few seconds and then letting them fall to a relaxed position. You can also loosen your muscles by rolling your shoulders in both directions.

Stretches

Place your hand on the shoulder you want to stretch to prevent it from moving up. The other hand should be on top of your head with your fingers pointing towards the back. Your neck should always remain inline with your back and the only body part that is moving is your head.

Gently pull your head forward with your chin toward your neck as if you’re nodding. Hold this position for 10 to 15 seconds. Then gently pull your head to the side, so your ear approaches the opposite shoulder. Switch sides.

Hold this position for 10 to 15 seconds. Next gently pull your head diagonally forward so your chin approaches the opposite shoulder. Hold this position for 10 to 15 seconds.

Think about a massage

If you have the time and money, get a massage. This will relieve you from tension and make you feel a lot better. If you don't have the budget or time to go for a massage then you can do it on your own. All you need is a wall and a tennis ball.

First, massage yourself by rolling the ball on your traps, with some pressure. You will feel how tight it is and there will likely be one spot that hurts the most. Wherever that spot is, stay there with your tennis ball and slightly push. Hold that for at least 90 seconds, or until you feel a release of tension.

If you feel the tightness on the back, more in your middle traps and between your shoulder blades, you won't need to do yoga exercises to reach there with the tennis ball. Find a wall and lean against it with the tennis ball between and roll up and down.

Following these guidelines will help tighten neck and shoulder muscles so you can get back to your daily activities. It’s important to build up on exercise so that you don’t add to your problems, particularly if you're dealing with an injury.

Source: https://www.active.com

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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2 comments on “Tight Shoulder Muscles”

  1. I spend most of my time either sat at my desk, driving or in meetings and my neck and shoulder muscles suffer as a result. I also have a weakness after a car accident years ago which left the right hand side weak.

    I will give you suggested exercises a go; starting gently as you recommend.

    1. Thanks. Yes, sadly what you describe are all potential causes of tense muscles. I believe the key is to keep ourselves moving, even when we're sitting.

      By moving our arms and legs as we sit, we're including a small workout. It'd be great to catch up with you to see how you get on.

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