It doesn’t matter what lengths you go to in your every day to quantify, to make things work for you, there will always be others who think what they think. It happens in every-day life, it happens in your working lives.
When we fail to recognise
Not everyone will recognise what they need to emotionally or mentally do to help themselves, will move on with their lives or changes their opinions; or how they deal with people. But you have to remember it is important your healing doesn’t depend on another person's ability to see your emotional growth. They may never see it.
Working on change
That when it comes to change, time may stand still for others, because of their own lack of acknowledgment and interest to change their lives.