"Divergent thinking is a method of problem-solving that uses an open-ended, creative, free-form approach to explore different possible solutions, rather than using a rigid, binary framework. Psychologist J.P. Guilford first used the term "divergent thinking" in the 1950s." (Source: masterclass)
Divergent Thinking is something people with a disability may have. While I'm curious to learn, I am different and I deal with difference. I use my gut and intuition to brain storm different possible solutions to the answers I need. Those answers are my blogs.
I was aware I was different
Throughout my life, although not knowing I had autism, I was aware I was different and trying to fit in is impossible. Writing from an autistic perspective, I have always had a preoccupation with words. It is why the transition into writing didn’t faze me.
I am comfortable when I write
I have said this before, but writing is the only time I feel comfortable, and in control of my thoughts and how I feel. I am finally in charge. Through my words, I know what I want to say and how I want to say it. Verbally, I fail to find the words.
I don't hold any punches
After 13 years, readers following my blog will know my writing style. I don’t hold any punches. I present the facts as they present to me. I am truthful, but universal truth and personal truth doesn’t make us popular. I'm okay with that.
Trying to negotiate the literary world is difficult
As a writer with autism, trying to negotiate the literary world is difficult. Even with a blog, it can be difficult seeking support.
Writing has saved my mental health. My blog is a place I feel comfortable in. I can finally be me.
My daughter would benefit greatly from your blog and books to help her deal with her cerebral palsy, so it's her loss unfortunately.
I greatly appreciate your honesty. You have helped me tremendously over the years. People don't understand how difficult the world can be when you have a lot of issues, so I am grateful that you can relate and identify with my struggles.
Keep up the great work...
Thanks Randy. Sweet and kind of you to say. I'm so glad my blog is helping you. Yes, unless you walk a mile in another person's shoes, it would be very difficult to know for sure what that person deals with.
BUT it shouldn't stop anyone trying to understand another person, their disability, to be tolerant, to be empathetic and caring.
The world needs more, not less. It is important to pull that back.