The world is full of people with egos, who see themselves as privileged. Ego and privilege, when put together make an explosive combination.  Even those who proclaim to be spiritual are getting it wrong.

Spiritual Retreats

Take for instance, spiritual retreats. They sound lovely helping people find spiritualism, going beyond egoistic thoughts, but often wonder about retreats and the formation of a spiritual ‘elite’ class. Not everyone can afford its price tag.

Retreats shouldn’t be a luxury, they should be open to everyone. If Jesus were alive today, I couldn't see him organising a spiritual retreat that would be only accessible to the middle or upper classes, to those with financial means.

Meditation Retreats

Spiritual development and meditation retreats are creating their own privileged class of spiritual people, people who are in a position to pay for such luxuries. It should be for a payment everyone can afford.

When you provide a service that benefits others, unless it is a business, you can't expect others to have to pay for the service you provide. (Source: thymindoman.com)

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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4 comments on “Ego and Privilege”

  1. I was raised in a confusing world where we weren't supposed to have much of an ego of our own, but then expected to behave like royalty on the other hand.

    The only way to describe it is that we were acting like 'redneck royalty' but most people saw us as poor white trash. That's why I get annoyed when people expect me to treat them like royalty, but look down their nose at me at the same time.

    The current times with corona are a prime example of ego and privilege. There are people who think they are better than everyone else and refuse to follow the rules like the virus doesn't apply to them.

    The saddest part is that they end up being the one who carry it to those who can least afford to end up getting it and they don't really give a damn.

    1. Thanks Randy. Yes, just because someone thinks they are, doesn't mean they are. Rest assured, the universe will always check and balance our actions. It knows us more than we know ourselves.

      Through the coronavirus, I hope we all come through better people. If it is teaching us one thing, it is to be more caring, more kind and more conciliatory.

      There is no excuse for us not to change the error of our ways. We must become better people through the other end.

  2. Underneath the ego and the privilege is a plastic life where people hide behind their status and sophisticated schemes. I know because I have rubbed elbows with these individuals, even dated a few.

    The most interesting thing I discovered is that privilege didn't make them happy. Being invisible I saw that very closely.

    1. Your response is on point Tim. You're absolutely right. The sad reality is these people don't always wake up. Instead they continue to hide behind their veil of 'status and sophistication' and make their lives about everyone else.

      Being invisible is a good place to be. If you're invisible for long enough, it allows you to observe other people, without participating in the process, teaching you 'how exactly not to live your life.'

      You've summed up my life perfectly.

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