The cynical judgment of disability. A Lesson in Humility and Hope and I'm struggling with the words cynical and judgment. It's how the world views people, it's how the world views disability. It's important not to judge, to see beyond the labels.

Surprising the World with Hidden Talent

It is important the world overturns its preconceived notions about disabilities. This absolutely echoes the experiences of my disabilities. It is only through my steely determination that I have managed to turn my life around. How? By honing in on a skill-set I didn't know I had, when the window of opportunity opened, and I took it. In 2025, it is important to take time to see beyond the labels. We are not our labels. Society labels.

The Emotional Weight of Being Misunderstood

I am reminded I am not alone. Chris McCausland, a blind disabled comedian, spoke to the BBC about how people's views of disabilities are 'antiquated.' Speaking on BBC Radio 4's Today programme, he said his participation on the show (Strictly Come Dancing) is "extreme" but hopes it will "go some way in stretching people's ideas of what is possible for a person with disabilities." (Source: bbccouk). I feel the same way.

Growing up as a twin, we were constantly being judged. Judgment followed, but I felt it more because I was born and lived with a disability. Now without my twin, our labels are still there.

Redefining "Normal" and "Success"

Chris McCausland and I both continue to challenge societal norms. Like Chris, we are both redefining what success looks like with disabilities by offering fresh perspectives.

Our stories highlight the need for greater understanding and inclusivity. Our stories are one of breaking barriers, inspiring others, and showing the world the incredible potential that lies beyond first impressions.

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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