I’m used to spending my life solving problems, it’s the way I find peace. Dealing with a disability means I am different and means others are working with someone with difference.

External influences (how others interact with me) impact on how I deal with certain situations, often creating anxiety where it doesn't need to happen. I am tired of my mental disability having to be the silent undercurrent all the time.

It is important disability is put on the world map, but it also needs to stay there as part of the norm, of society. There needs to be acceptance. People talk a lot about the fact they're okay with working with people of difference, but their words don't replicate their behaviour.

People's responses to us need to be positive. Taking issue with the fact that we have to work with difference, shouldn't be an issue. This is still very much a people's issue. Disabled people need to be treated in the same way as able bodied.

Ilana Estelle is a mental health and wellbeing advocate who combines educational insight with her personal experience of living with physical, mental, and emotional disabilities. She holds diplomas in Counselling, Diet and Nutrition, Nutritional Therapy, Psychotherapy and Counselling, and Stress Management. Through her writing, Ilana supports others in navigating their emotional, mental, and physical health challenges. In addition to writing for The CP Diary, her work has appeared in healthy lifestyle magazines. Ilana is also the author of three books: Cerebral Palsy: A Story – Finding the Calm After the Storm, Spirituality, Healing and Me, and Survival: The Covid Years – Time for Change.

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4 comments on “Taking issue”

  1. You've got to keep looking up! It's tiring but things will resolve when it's time. Stay tough. You can make it.

    I know how you feel. It's like you see the end and then bam something else gets in the way.

    It will all settle down soon.

    1. Thanks for your reassuring response Lisa. I do regularly look up, but still seeing the same ole' things!

      I do agree with your sentiments completely. Life changes, mine will too. I have to continue to believe and will.

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