Losing a loved one is never easy. It's only in their absence that we truly understand what they meant to us. Grief has a way of opening doors to emotions we never expected – some gentle, some overwhelming. Maybe, just maybe, you need to allow yourself to feel them all.

There is 'no schedule' to Healing

If it's anger you feel, let it out. If sadness lingers, embrace it. There’s no right or wrong way to grieve, or let go of loved ones. People around you might expect you to move on quickly, but grief doesn’t follow a schedule. Some wounds take longer to heal, and that’s okay.

What about Resentment?

But what about resentment? Some losses come with unresolved pain, leaving us questioning whether forgiveness is even possible. Maybe the real question isn’t whether we should forgive, but whether holding on to the hurt serves us. Perhaps, in time, we find our own way – not by forcing forgiveness, but by making peace with what was. This is what many of us should probably do.

Conclusion

You can still move forward without forgiving. If you choose to forgive, it doesn’t mean you condone another person's actions, or doesn't mean they're not accountable. Is forgiving important? No, you can still let go of the anger and resentment through understanding – it is through understanding that you can heal, mentally emotionally, and physically.