Even though a new set of circumstances can seem different, they can also feel very much the same. I know I’m not back at square one, it just feels like I am. The new operation is making me feel despondent, because I’m now working through similar circumstances to the last one.
I am not discounting the progress I've made, but my mood and despondency is telling me otherwise. Unless I have new coping strategies in place, the way I perceive my new situation will remain the same.
I must have made progress because:
I know I have taken enormous strides to get to this place. Getting to this place is progress, so why does it feel like I'm standing still? I’m telling myself everything’s okay.
I think it will be great if you can put this in the past.
It's great to see that you're dealing with it; you're definitely making progress. Sometimes it's easier to just give up in situations like these.
Thanks Anne for your continued concern of me and my family. Yesterday was a very low day for me, but today I am feeling slightly more positive about everything.
I think any operation is difficult, but the way we cope emotionally is key. I think that's what we've been struggling with. The physical healing will come in time.
Your continued positivity is a true inspiration, thanks for that. I wish you and your family all the best!
Thanks Anne. Your support means a lot to me.
I'm glad things are getting better and you're not giving up.
Thanks Lisa.
That was a very interesting posting and very informative.
I also am happy to stand firm than to fall back but do we ever really fall back? I suppose we would if we didn't learn from previous life experiences.
I wish the very best for your whole family through this difficult time. It sounds to me like you have a good handle on it and will come through it just fine.
Thanks Brian. I think you're right about life experiences. If we don't learn from them we will more than likely fall back.
I am happy that I'm at least standing still! Hopefully that will change soon.